?

Log in

Previous 10

Feb. 1st, 2010

Writer's Block: Unfriended, Unspecified!

Has anyone ever unfriended you without explanation? Did you ask why? Have you ever deleted someone from your friend list without saying why?

Probably, but not that i can remember noticing..which means it was probably someone i didn't talk to much.

And i actually feel like deleting someone from my fb and myspace friends list...is it bad if it's my own sister?? First off, let me tell you a little about her. Shes 21..i'm 26. She is almost a carbon copy of my mom..well, a wannabe, anyway. She's so judgemental about everything. She acts like she's little miss perfect and it's so annoying! In her eyes, tattoos are bad and pointless. I have tattoos =]. She acts like everything she does is right, and everyone else is wrong. Well, a while back, everything i'd write or talk about on my pages was discussed with my parents. That pisses me off! She's always "secretly" in my business..ugh. I had deleted her a long time ago for this reason. But since we lived in different states, i figured it was time to let go of my grudge and i added her again. Well lately, this has been happening again and i feel myself about to cuss her out..

Sooo..i'm definately considering deleting her again..hmm..what to do, what to do...

Jan. 29th, 2010

Writer's Block: Mobile etiquette

Do you get offended if someone repeatedly checks their mobile phone when you're out for lunch or dinner? If so, do you usually say something?

Seriously, if you're gonna take the time to go to lunch or dinner with someone, regardless of who it is, why do u need to be all up on your phone? That's so annoying! When i'm out with my bf and his phone goes off with alerts of texts, i just pull out my phone and start texting my friends..it's kinda like a "how do YOU like it?" thing...of course, he doesn't, so he puts his phone away! As far as my friends, they don't really do it. When we're out, we're gossiping, laughing, shopping..etc..

The most annoying thing of all is the "update-happy" people..the ones who constantly feel the need to update their Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, whatever-the-hell-else-there-is- to-update...!!!! Don't update your status with "Catching up with Raquel (smiley face)" when you're on your phone the entire lunch, and soo not catching up with me!!

Jan. 24th, 2010

Writer's Block: Back from the dead

If you could experience being dead for one day to learn what happens in the afterlife, and were guaranteed to return to life the following day, would you do it? Why or why not?

Right off the bat, i'd have to say nooo way. I'm too afraid of taking chances, that just the thought of "dying" even if only for a day, scares me..i can't help but think that once i'm gone, i'm gone, no matter how good of a guarantee you give me.

Death is something i'm not really curious about, because i don't even like to think about it. i guess it's meant to happen when it happens and i don't wanna mess with anything.

The only thing i CAN admit to being curious about is to see  who would cry/ who would show up to my funeral/ who would care...

Oh gosh...i hope i don't have any dreams/nightmares about this tonight..i hate when that happens! =/

Jan. 22nd, 2010

Writer's Block: A rose by any other name ...

How did you choose your LiveJournal username? Is there an interesting story behind it?


There's a cartoon series on Cartoon Network called "Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends"...in the series, the little boy (Mac) is best friends with Bloo. A new friend named Berry enters the house as sweet as can be, at first, though with one glance on Bloo, became love struck and determined to make Bloo love her back, though there is one thing that truthfully stands between her and Bloo, and that is Mac! So anywho, in this episode, she becomes jealous of all the time Bloo spends with his friend, so she does everything she can to separate them...

From that day forward, my boyfriend calls me Berry because he used to have a friend i absolutely detested, and he said Berry reminds him of how i used to be..sweet on the outside, but totally crazy on the inside...haha! Sooo..i added secret in front of berry because i secretly admit to being exactly like her...lol...

The 49 is from something my boyfriends mom used to tell him when he was a kid..she always told him "i love you for nine"..she said nine means forever..so him and I always tell each other, "i love u 4 9"..=]

So there you have it....secret_berry49

Jan. 20th, 2010

Writer's Block: Rotten tomatoes

What is the worst movie you've ever seen? Did you sit through it or walk out? What made it so dreadful?

wow, there's a few of those...

first off, funny people--i sat thru as much of it as i could at home before i told my bf to put something else on! you would think with a title like "funny people", that it would be funny---HELL NO, IT WASN'T!

any mariah carey or jennifer lopez movie
--horrible actresses..

the devil's rejects
..that was just a stupid movie..

i'm sure there's more, but  nothing else comes to mind right now..





Jan. 15th, 2010

Writer's Block: Love is deaf

Could you spend the rest of your life with someone who had horrific taste in music? How important is it to you to share your love of music with a good friend or romantic partner?

Haha! Come on now, serioulsy?!? Taste in music is gonna stop you from being with someone for the rest of your life?! That's what ipod's, mp3's and cd players are for!!!

Writer's Block: Do (political) opposites attract?

Are there any political issues, such as abortion or capital punishment, that are so fundamental to your core values that you could not respect and/or trust someone who held a contrary view?

Respect and trust aren't based on having the same opinions and beliefs as i do. Everyone has a right to believe what they want to believe. And i'll admit, sometimes it's difficult to accept this, when talking about such important topics such as the death penalty, for example. For instance, the stuff you see on the wolrd news, about rapists and murderers--most people would agree on the death penalty for them. But if that rapist or murderer were your own family--your father/mother/brother/sister, etc., i believe most people's opinion would change. 

As for abortion, i don't agree with it either, but who am i to tell another woman what to do with her body and her baby? I'm not in their situation, and whether or not it was because of a health issue, or just plain selfishness, the decision is their own.

Of course there's other issues, such as gay rights, discrimination, sexism, and so on...

The bottom line, for me, is no one is right or wrong. You believe what you want to believe, but don't try pushing your views on me, because that is something i just won't deal with.

Respect and trust are there until you lose it.

Writer's Block: Friend indeed

Are there any must-have traits, such as intelligence, humor, and integrity, that you look for in potential friends? Have you ever made exceptions? How did it work out?

No, I don't screen people in order to be friends with them. Of course, humor is something that catches my attention first because i like to laugh. Humor is a very attractive trait, in my opinion. I admire intelligence, it's so fascinating to see how much you can learn from a single person. In fact, i think it's better to make friends with those you'd consider "exceptions" because there's so much to learn from them, and diversity is fun. As far as integrity goes, you can't tell sometimes. That's just something you find out about people, whether friends or family,  as you get to know them.

Dec. 18th, 2009

Writer's Block: Honesty is such a lonely word

Do you think honesty is really the best policy when it comes to relationships? Is total honesty possible, let alone desirable?
Yes, i  believe it is..honesty is one of the most simple things you can contribute to a relationship. it's common sense. just DON'T LIE!! so yes, total honesty IS possible! i don't understand how this is difficult for some people..if you can't at least be honest in a relationship--whether it's a romantic one or just  a friendship, then don't even start anything. Save the other person, and yourself, some time..

Dec. 7th, 2009

Writer's Block: Smoke screen

What are your feelings towards smoking? What rights do you think smokers and non-smokers should have?

Honestly, i think smoking is gross. I've never smoked in my life, but just being around it (my bf smokes) gives me headaches and stomach aches.

BUT i don't think there should be such a thing as "rules" for smokers and non-smokers. That's what this world is all about: RULES. You can't make rules against everything.

However, i believe in common courtesy. Such as, smoking around kids. It's not that hard to get up and walk a few feet away from them and light up somewhere else. That also goes for smoking in restaurants. I don't believe in the whole "non-smoking" area, because smoke travels, so no matter how far off in the corner you sit, it's still in the same room.

No one can force someone to stop smoking, it's damn near impossible. But if you have the right to choose to smoke, i have the right to choose not to, so don't blow it in my face.

Just have some respect.

Previous 10